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At This House Party, Three is Never a Crowd

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Last weekend Rick and I went to our first house party in a couple of years and had a great time. We had met the hosts Ronnie and his lovely wife Alicia several weeks before.  After chatting online a few times they invited us to their home one night for drinks and conversation. After we left their home, Ronnie called us to say Rick had left his sunglasses behind, telling him that “you can have them back if I can see Shay’s tits!” We knew he was joking, but when we returned I offered one of my breasts to him in his driveway. He accepted my offer and we shared a fun kiss before hitting the road again.

Then last weekend we returned for more fun. This party was smaller and intimate, with about 6 or 7 other couples. We were the only newbies, as far as I could tell. The others seemed to know each other already, but everyone was very friendly and welcoming. After introductions and the first round of drinks, everyone got naked and got into the pool and/or hot tub. Rick and I made our way into the pool and talked to some people then decided to get into the hot tub. We weren’t groped or hit on by anyone in either place, but we felt comfortable and were having a good time. The guests started to trickle back into the house, and we followed.

We refreshed our drinks and got a snack then Ronnie asked me if I’d like to get back into the pool. I said “yes” so he and I returned to the pool alone. We chatted for a few minutes before being joined by a petite woman named Julia.

“Am I interrupting anything,” she asked?

“Not at all,” Ronnie said.

Julia got in the pool, came over to me and started making out with me. Then she kissed Ronnie. Then I kissed Ronnie, then Julia. We had a nice little threesome makeout and groping session going on. Julia is very petite, as I mentioned before, and has a great little ass. Ronnie commented several times on how hot the two of us ladies looked as we pleasured each other. Ronnie is in great shape and nicely endowed. He pulled a bottle of lube out of the landscaping around the pool, telling me it works well in water. He was right. Whatever this stuff was, it lubed his stiff cock nicely so it slid right in. Julia and I took turns being in the “middle of the sandwich” making out with each other while Ronnie fucked both of us. I was having so much fun I didn’t even notice how much time had passed when Rick came out of the house and sat on the edge of the pool.

“Hey baby,” I said with a smile.

“Having fun?” he asked.

“Very much so,” I replied.

Our little threesome continued a few minutes longer before I swam over to Rick to include him in our fun. At that point, Ronnie and Julia cooled off a bit then got out of the pool, dried off and went into the house. Rick told me how hot it was to watch me and Julia enjoying each other as I reached under the water and discovered his cock was hard. I stroked and licked him for a bit then used some of Ronnie’s magic lube and rode him for a few minutes. Afterward,  I asked him if he played with anyone and he said after Ronnie and I came outside, he stayed in the kitchen, chatting with the others and started rubbing Alicia’s neck. After a few minutes she invited him upstairs. Rick said they lay down on the bed and Alicia almost immediately went down on him. After a few minutes, he suggested she climb on top of him for some 69 action. This went on for a while before she told him she wanted Rick to cum in her mouth. Their 69 play continued until he gave her what she wanted by exploding with a mouthful of jizz. She really seemed to enjoy it as she licked off every last drop.

They relaxed on the bed for a bit afterward, chatting before getting up to return downstairs. When he didn’t see me in the kitchen, he came out and found me still having fun in our little threesome.

When we went back in the house, we saw that the group started to wrap things up. We had one final snack and drink before getting dressed to say goodbye. As Rick put his pants on, one of the ladies eyed his cock and said, “Oh, my.”

“You can touch it,” Rick told her.

She grabbed it and giggled. But she didn’t go any further, so he finished getting dressed.

We kissed our hosts as we said goodbye and look forward to playing with them again soon!

(Note: the picture above doesn’t exactly represent how my threesome went down, but you get the idea…)

PS – a few days after this awesome party, I met two new friends –  separately – and will write about our sexy adventures soon…

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Some girls like long walks on the beach but I like watching my boyfriend fuck other women. We’re all different.

Found this great post over at thecuriousadventuresofme and thought it worth sharing. Kind of sums up my feelings on polyamory, threesomes and watching dear Rick fuck another woman. Enjoy!

 

Some girls like long walks on the beach but I like watching my boyfriend fuck other women. We’re all different..

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More Swinging Etiquette – What to do When Playtime is Over?

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Continuing my thoughts on swinging etiquette, I thought I’d discuss another situation that could possibly cause awkwardness – at least, for me it can.

What do you do after playtime is over?

After you’ve gone through the basic “get to know you” stage (i.e. after you’ve determined that a) you’re attracted to your new playmate, and b) you’ve determined that said playmate is not an axe murderer), then generally you move to a more comfortable location and, um, get your freak on.

You have mind-blowing sex, in whatever form that takes, experience multiple orgasms, shrieks heard to the rafters.

What do you do next?

For me I usually lie back and relax, then get up for a drink, or go to spy on Rick. Sometimes I get lucky and can catch him banging another woman before they finish (watching him is a huge turn-on for me). Sometimes my play partner and I will cuddle, which usually doesn’t last long. Then we get up.

From time to time I’ve wondered what others do. Is there a better or more graceful way to end the play session?

I posed this question to some fellow swingers and here’s how they answered:

“You do what feels right: talk, play cards, play games.”

“We use the cool down period to actually get to know them.” (I LOVE this answer. I can just see it now: “You’re a great fuck. I’m Shay, by the way (extending my hand). Nice to meet you.”)

“We usually shower and go to bed!!  At a club, “thank you” is sufficient.  Our friends, those we have to our home or us to theirs, are very easy; we look at the clock, figure the drive time and act accordingly.  Sometimes, there is a last drink, maybe even a little more playfulness, a dip in a pool or its simply, “great time, good night” accompanied by hugs. It just depends.”

“Well you could tell him, now that he has blown his nut, to get off his ass and go make you a sandwich”

“Every situation is different. Number one rule, what would you like to hear when you are done, so act accordingly. If you are not with your spouse, simply state “let’s go look for our spouses”.  If you are all together, usually not everyone finishes at the same time, so you either get up and leave for a drink (or a sandwich or you watch until they are finished.  If it was a good time, you can cuddle as you watch. When it is over, break the ice with something polite, or all of you get up for that sandwich.  If you did not have the best of times, when your spouse is finished, just remind them you need to get up early in the morning or some excuse like that so you leave.

And if nothing else, heed this sage advice from a wise swinger:

“Just treat others as you would like to be treated”.

So I guess I’m doing ok. I try to practice the golden rule whenever possible. As a result, I’ve had mostly decent experiences, and haven’t been in too many awkward situations. Still, it’s always good to know what’s generally accepted.

Couples – how do you handle the end of play session? What are your tips?

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Our Perfect Unicorn

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If you’re lucky enough to eavesdrop on a conversation among swingers, you’re likely to hear the subject of unicorns discussed sooner or later. A threesome encounter (or two or 300) is typically high on a swinger’s bucket list. But finding an unattached female, or an attached one with an open-minded boyfriend/husband, is often difficult.

Today Rick and I spent some time reflecting on the two amazing unicorns we’ve enjoyed over the last couple of years. I’ve written about both of them – Angelina and Maddy. Our reflection soon turned into a discussion about “What makes a perfect unicorn?”

We decided that our perfect swinging and/or poly unicorn would have to have the following characteristics:

  1. She needs to be truly bi (or an overriding willingness to learn, as Rick says). Not a pillow princess who isn’t willing to reciprocate orally.
  1. She needs to be attracted to both of us. The attraction doesn’t have to be perfectly equal, but as I wrote in my last post, threesomes don’t work if all parties aren’t willing to touch and please each other (unless the ladies agree that there won’t be any interaction between the two of them, or unless the man is willing to just observe). Both Angelina and Maddy are really, really good at giving us balanced attention and never making one of us feel left out of the fun. Sadly, we haven’t seen Angelina in a while, but Maddy and I keep in touch regularly. And you know you have an amazing unicorn when she sends you a message that reads, “The excitement and energy I feel between the three of us is unique and something new for me. I love it.”
  1. She needs to respect our relationship. Unicorns are a fun addendum to a couple’s sex life. She isn’t there to replace anyone.
  1. A GREAT unicorn will realize that her friendship with the wife is key to receiving a return invite to the couple’s bedroom. Women rule the swing lifestyle, so keeping honest, sincere and friendly communication and respect with the wife will go a long way.
  1. She needs to have her own life outside of ours. We want our unicorn to have her own boyfriends (if she wanted them), her own regular friends, her own hobbies, her own pursuits. Of course if we were dating a woman, we would pursue some shared interests with her, but we would not want her to give up the things she enjoyed before meeting us. Again, swinging and poly are supposed to be mutually-agreed addenda to a relationship, not something to be taken away from an existing one.

Most of us in the swing lifestyle think that if you find a unicorn, you should catch it and donate it to a museum so it can be studied and hopefully replicated. That is a joke, but you get the idea. Unicorns are a rare treat to be enjoyed. Handle with care.

Couples, what is your definition of a “perfect unicorn”?

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Halloween and Swingers go together like…peas and carrots!

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Actually, Halloween for swingers is like Fat Tuesday for Catholics and Christians. The analogy is even more striking after reading Wikipedia’s definition of the holiday: “…Popular practices include wearing masks and costumes, overturning social conventions, dancing, sports competitions, parades, etc.” While I don’t think I’ve seen a sports competition at a swinger’s Halloween party, (yet, anyway) I think the comparisons are eerily familiar.

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This is NOT me, but my costume looked a LOT like this.

Rick and I attended a costume party at a swinger’s club last weekend. It was our first time dressing up for Halloween as a couple. Yes, ever. (Hey, that’s only 5 1/2 years). After some discussion, we decided to go as gladiators/Romans/Spartans/one who wears a toga. We had already purchased these costumes last spring to take with us on our trip to a couples’ resort in Mexico, but ended up not wearing them then. We looked hot, if I do say so myself. We invited our favorite unicorn, Angelina, to join us, and she agreed. She came dressed as a…unicorn. It was a very cute, sexy outfit that she got many comments and compliments on.

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This is NOT Rick, but his costume looked sorta like this…

We arrived at the club just as it opened, knowing that it would soon be packed to the rafters with hot and horny people.  We danced and enjoyed cocktails and met several new, fun couples.  Most everyone wore a costume, although there were a few who arrived in regular street clothes and club wear. (Ok, so you’re a swinger and decide to venture in to a club sans costume on the Saturday before Halloween. Really??? Do you own a calendar?) Despite the plain Janes, there were lots of creative, sexy and barely-there costumes represented. French maids, Playboy bunnies, latex princesses, schoolgirls, you name it.

But my absolute favorite costume was worn by a guy who came dressed as Walter White from the TV show Breaking Bad. Rick and I became fans of this show very late in it’s existence. Like this year. Once we discovered it, we watched five years of episodes in about three months. I so wish we had discovered this gem years ago, but better late than never, I suppose. Anyway, this guy looked like Bryan Cranston‘s twin (the actor who plays Walter White). He wore Heisenberg’s black fedora to start with, then as the evening progressed he donned Walter’s typical meth-cooking attire: tidy whities, a chef’s apron and Doc Martens boots. His wife/girlfriend came as

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Does he fantasize about fucking Cleopatra?

the sexy French maid (I must have missed the episode she was in, LOL) and didn’t leave his side for most of the evening. I loved the creativity of his costume so much that I tried to think up a clever pick-up line. (“I know Walter White is a chemistry teacher, but do you think he enjoyed history enough to fantasize about fucking Cleopatra?”)

But alas, I didn’t.

As the club rapidly filled with people, I thought it might be time to go play for a bit. By now Angelina had pulled Rick’s cock out from under his toga and was stroking it to a full hard-on. He said to her, “You’re being very naughty,” to which she replied “YES, I AM!” She and I had also been making out from time to time, so I figured we should get a bed before they were all taken.

We found an empty bed fairly quickly. One thing about Halloween sex: sometimes the costumes can be a big pain in the ass to deal with. Although mine and Rick’s costumes were easy to get off, poor Angelina had to get out of a corset, take off a wig, a tutu, knee-high stockings, heels, and her unicorn horn. I silently wondered how many swingers decide NOT to have sex at a Halloween party due to the sheer hassle of dealing with costumes.

After we collectively helped Angelina out of her costume, we got busy. One thing I love about Angelina is that she’s crazy fun. She loves to be our “dirty little slut” so I told her I wanted her to fuck Rick while I watched for a few minutes. I put his cock inside her, which is always fun, and watched her grind on top of him. She did that for a while then Rick told her to get off and eat my pussy, which was already soaking wet.

“Is she always this wet?” she asked him.

“Usually. Unless she’s exhausted or not feeling well, she’s usually good to go,” he replied.

Their exchange struck me as funny because it sounded like they were talking about me as if I wasn’t there.

She went down on me while Rick played with my nipples. In no time they had sent me over the edge to a delicious orgasm. She played with me a little longer then BAM! – she rolled off the bed and onto the floor, sending all three of us into uncontrollable laughter. As she quickly climbed back onto the bed, we heard some girl’s voice say, “Oh, my God! Is she naked?”

She composed herself and moved over to Rick’s cock, taking it in her mouth. I got behind Angelina and went down on

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This isn’t Angelina, but she’s close… 😉

her at the same time. She licked and sucked and I heard his breathing quicken so I decided to move up to join her in giving him some oral pleasure. He enjoys having two girls take turns sucking his cock so that’s what we did. I took his balls in my mouth as she worked his shaft. He got up on his knees as we continued running our tongues and lips over his hard shaft and swollen balls. When he was close to cumming, we pulled back and told him to cum on our faces. He stroked himself a few more times and shot his wad all over our faces, necks and tits.

We could hear more people gathering in the room to look for beds to play on. I overheard some people lamenting the lack of beds, but we had no interest in giving ours up.  Angelina and I cleaned ourselves off then she lay back and it was my turn to taste her wet pussy. Her clit was rock hard. I ran my tongue around it and started sucking on it as she moaned. I inserted two fingers inside her and started massaging her g-spot. After a few minutes Rick took over massaging her, using his big fingers to bring her to a climax. We all sat back and relaxed for a few minutes afterward, then decided to take on the task of getting our unicorn back into her costume. Re-lacing and hooking that corset took some time with the limited light available but we managed to get her put back together. We looked around for a clean sheet to replace the one we’d played on but by the time we found one and returned to the bed, it had been claimed by a handful of patient albeit horny folks.

Angelina and I made a quick trip to the ladies’ room before the three of us returned to our spot, which had by that time been claimed by some other partygoers. However, they moved their beer bottles to let us back in. We danced a little while longer into the wee hours before calling it a night. Angelina promised she’d try to bring her friend Antonio along for the next play date.

We had so much fun at our pre-Halloween party that I don’t feel like I missed out on anything as I hand out candy to the neighborhood kids tonight. Although I wish we’d remembered to get a picture of us in our costumes.

Did you dress up this Halloween?

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Swinger Q & A – Inquiring Minds Want to Know

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Hi readers – just wanted to say “thanks” for reading and following tales of my “indiscretions”. Rick and I have been having some fun lately, as I’ve documented here. I want to ratchet up my blog’s design and readability, so you can expect some changes in the look and navigation of this site over the next few weeks. I’d love to hear your feedback.

As the subject of swinging came up with select few new acquaintances, we’ve been asked a lot of questions about the lifestyle, as you can imagine. I thought I’d take the opportunity to publicly answer a few of them here:

  1. How did you get into swinging, and why do you do it?

Rick and I have always been pretty open with each other, about all subjects, almost immediately from the time we met. We’d talk about sex like most couples, and when we discussed fantasies, bucket lists and such, swinging came up. I’ll let Rick tell you the rest, here in this post.

We play with other couples because a) it allows us to experience other people in an open and honest way, and b) it’s sexy and fun to see each other interacting in such an intimate way with other people.

But we don’t spend every weekend having sex with other people. In fact, when you consider how hard it can be to work in a date around four (or more) work schedules, kid commitments and travel plans, it’s amazing that any sex happens at all.

2.  How does swinging bring a couple closer together?

When we play with another couple, or another woman, obviously we’re going to see each other being intimate with someone else. I think it’s sexy to watch Rick play with other women (for a while, at least). For me, it’s kind of an out-of-body experience and it’s interesting to contemplate what he would be like if I wasn’t around. I know that sounds totally weird, but that’s me.

Rick will watch me with another person, for a time, but ultimately needs to be involved at some point. Which is fine. For us, part of the swing lifestyle is about making sure each partner getting to indulge fantasies from time to time. In order for that to happen, there has to be a lot of honest, open and frank discussion, and that’s how a relationship becomes closer.

3.  Do you ever get jealous?

Rick says he doesn’t get jealous, but I must admit, every now and then I meet up with the green-eyed monster. I’ve noticed it creeps up when I’m not feeling too good about myself, because I’ve had a bad day at work, or I didn’t wear my favorite dress, or my roots are showing, or something equally trivial and goofy.

4.  How do you meet other swingers?

We’re on a few websites, and sometimes we’ll just go to clubs or house parties and meet people there.

5.  Don’t you get tired of casual sex?

Who gets tired of sex??? Seriously though, I think I’d get tired of casual sex if I weren’t married to Rick. Having these experiences with him is what makes it so much fun.

6.  Do you ever get emotionally attached to someone you’ve played with?

I have not, and Rick says he hasn’t either. There are couples and people we’ve enjoyed playing with more than others, and at times we like to “go back to the well,” so to speak. But that has more to do with how well our personalities blend together, the playmate’s sexual technique, if they’re well-endowed, or ideally, a combination of all three!

7. Why do you like to write about your sexual experiences?

Who else am I going to tell??? It’s not like I can just chat about it while standing around the water cooler with my coworkers, or tell my family about it during Sunday dinners. This is my outlet to share our experiences with others (albeit somewhat anonymously). I appreciate every single one of this blog’s followers more than I can say. My blog and it’s followers challenge me to stretch my thinking and writing skills, which stimulates the other parts of my brain that swinging just can’t quite reach. 🙂 Thank you, all.

 

Do you have any questions that I haven’t addressed in this post, or other posts? Feel free to ask away!

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Man Assaults Girlfriend During 3-Way

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This story from the Huffington Post is a real head-scratcher (the head that separates your ears). I always thought a threesome was at the top of most men’s sexual Bucket List. I’m sure that’s how this guy felt, until reality didn’t quite live up to his fantasy.

Be sure to read the comments at the bottom of the page; the peanut gallery usually gets it right…

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/09/13/terry-antone-jenkins-assault-girlfriend-threeway-cousin_n_3920709.html

So be careful what you wish for, gentlemen. Or at least make sure you have staying power. You’re doubling your pleasure, remember?

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Our Private Rodeo With My Little Pony

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With little effort, Rick and I found a unicorn that was willing to be the filling of our love sandwich. (Fortunately, she also has a great sense of humor.) After exchanging a series of emails she and I texted each other for a couple of days prior to meeting. We agreed to meet at a local bar for drinks before heading off to one of our favorite swing clubs. She had never been to a swing club and said she felt a combination of nervousness and excitement.

Angelina was a tall, attractive blond with great boobs. She wore a black party dress with thigh-high black stockings and heels. We discovered we had a lot in common; we lives in the same general area, had kids around the same ages and were married. Yes, Angelina is married, but her husband has medical issues that apparently aren’t conducive to a happy and healthy sex life. She was on her date with us with his blessing.

Angelina was like a genie trapped in a bottle trying to pop that cork off from the inside. In other words she was ready to get her freak on.  She spoke openly about her desires, what she liked in the bedroom, what she wanted to do with me, with Rick, and with the two of us. It was pretty refreshing, actually, to hear someone speak so confidently about her sexuality.

After a couple of hours getting to know each other, and loosening up with a few drinks, we made our way to the club. She was very curious and asked a lot of questions about lifestyle etiquette, practices, customs, etc. We gave her a quick tour of the place then found a table near the bar. She wasted no time running her hand up Rick’s thigh. He wore shorts so she didn’t have to go very far before she found his cock and began playing with it. Somehow we started talking about boobs and she asked what size bra I wore. “38DD,” I answered, as I lowered my strapless dress to reveal my tits. “What about you?” I asked.

She lowered the straps of her dress and pulled out her own tits and answered, “I’m a 38DDD in this boob and a 38DD in the other.” I knew that most women have one breast slightly larger than the other (I do myself), but Angelina’s size difference was very obvious. It wasn’t unattractive at all, but rather fascinating.

So we talked boobs for a little while. She reached across the table to feel me up then started caressing my arm and shoulder. I caught a glance of a couple sitting at the table next to us, giving us a wide-eyed stare. Angelina leaned over to kiss Rick then reached across the table to kiss me. At that point, Rick said, “Let’s take this to a play room.”

We grabbed our bags and walked back to a playroom that had two double beds pushed together. We undressed each other and got onto the bed. It felt so natural. She and I started kissing, then she’d kiss Rick, then I’d kiss him, and so forth. Her hair and skin were unbelievably soft. She went down on Rick and got him rock hard pretty quickly. I straddled his face and lowered my pussy down to his hungry lips and tongue. Angelina sucked him for a while, while Rick got me off with his tongue. I happened to glance up and saw that a crowd was building around the bed. I climbed off Rick’s face and said to Angelina, “I want you to fuck him. Get on top of him and ride him like a horse.” I kind of surprised myself, being that bossy, but it was fun. Plus, Angelina said during our meet and greet that she liked to be told what to do in bed. So she lowered herself down around his cock as I put him inside her.

She rode Rick to her first climax of the night. It was a blast to watch, frankly. As she climbed off of him I told him, “Fuck her from behind.” He did as he was told and took her from behind. She said to me, “I want to taste you. Get in front of me.” So I got in front of her and spread my legs as she went down on me. Her tongue felt amazing, and in no time I came all over her face. At that point, we decided to take a breather. I noticed the crowd was still there.

We lay on the bed for a few minutes, talking quietly and caressing each other.  I laid on top of Angelina and started making out with her. Rick started fingering both of us. At the same time. With one hand. He had his thumb in one of us and his middle finger in the other. Which is a testament to his huge hands. Then I decided it was time to have a taste of Angelina’s sweet, shaved pussy. She sucked Rick’s cock while I went down on her.  Her pussy was dripping wet as I put two fingers inside her to massage her G-spot while I licked her clit. Rick’s cock fell out of her mouth as her head dropped to the pillow. She moaned loudly as she came on my fingers. Her pussy juices gushed down my hand.

She caught her breath as she put Rick’s cock back in her mouth. “I want to taste you,” she told him as she began sucking him. She and I took turns for a few minutes licking his cock and balls. I could tell he was close to a climax by the sound of his breathing, so I kept licking his balls as she stroked and sucked his cock. He spasmed and came in her mouth and she gulped every drop.

She wanted to get a toy out of her bag, and pulled out a purple vibrator. It was one of those amazing Lelo vibrators that cost a small fortune, but worth every penny. She used it on herself while I kissed her lips, neck and nipples. Rick lay down on the other side of her and began stroking her clit as she inserted her purple friend inside her pussy. Her kisses started to become more urgent and hungry. She took her vibe out of her pussy and put it on her clit. Rick put two fingers inside and found her swollen G-spot. He massaged it faster and faster and as she squealed, “I’m gonna squirt! I’m gonna squirt!”

Rick said, “Holy shit, she’s soaking wet,” Angelina continued moaning and thrashing about on the bed as her pussy contracted a few more times. She looked a little disoriented for a few seconds then started kissing Rick furiously, saying, “You made me squirt!” She kissed me hard and said, “I want to do the same to you.” She rolled over and spread my legs apart and put her vibrator right on my clit. God, it felt amazing. I’m definitely asking Santa for one this year. Rick pinched and tweaked my nipples, which always accelerates my excitement. I came pretty quickly, pussy juices gushing all over that purple love machine.

We were kind of worn out after that, and decided to let someone in the growing crowd take our big bed for a while. So we got up, stripped the wet sheets, got dressed and went off to touch up hair and makeup. She noticed the time and said she probably should get home, because her husband would be expecting her soon.

During the car ride back to the bar (where she’d left her car), we talked about other things we’d like to do. She said she loved that others watched us in the playroom.  We also learned that Angelina recently discovered a taste for BDSM, and was already in training with a Dom. She suggested I come along with her some time, hoping her Dom would force her to do things to me. Basically she would be his Sub, and I would be her Sub. Rick and I weren’t sure if or how that would ever pan out, but it was fun to consider the possibility.

When we dropped her off, we both kissed her goodbye and all promised we’d do it again soon.  On the ride home, the thought of what we did made me so hot and horny that I demanded Rick fuck my brains out when we got home. We got ready for bed, laid down, and within a few minutes we realized we were exhausted from the two-and-a-half hour fuckfest we’d just engaged in. So we dozed off.

But in the morning, I felt the unmistakable poking of my lower back that meant only one thing. Rick was ready for action again, and frankly, so was I. We started the day the same way we’d ended it the night before. It took a couple of days for my sore muscles to recover, but they were an awesome reminder of a great time.

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Is It Time to Play Separately?

7149_522165677832675_305177056_n[1]Last weekend Rick and I went to a house party. It was fun; a house jam-packed with people. There was a pre-party meet & greet at a local restaurant that was just as much as the party itself (a great way to kick off the evening, IMHO). But sadly, we didn’t play with anyone, because we’ve found ourselves at a fork in our swinging road and aren’t sure which road to take (or if we should just pick up the fork and take it home J ).

There were several good-looking men at this party; a few of them approached me, introduced themselves and flirted a little. One was a single man who actually introduced himself to me at the restaurant, and made the effort to do it again at the house. I was interested in playing with him, but his play partner didn’t interest Rick. And this scene has happened many times over the few years; sometimes I’m the one not that’s not interested, and sometimes it’s Rick. And sometimes it’s one of the other couple.

And therein lies the problem. We have had difficulty finding couples where The Other Guy is attracted to me, I’m attracted to him, The Other Girl is attracted to Rick, he to her, her to me and me to her. That’s SIX attractions that should be felt before anyone gets naked. And that’s happened to us maybe a half-dozen times.

So we started talking: how do we feel about playing separately? Would one of us be sitting around, twiddling our thumbs while the other was in a room fucking someone else? Would we feel awkward or learn how to just have our own fun and not worry about what the other person is doing? Would I start feeling resentful if Rick consistently found women to play with while I sat around trying to find my own playmate? Or vice versa?

We also talked about focusing on finding a unicorn, since the numbers would be in our favor. We’d just have to find one woman who appealed to both of us.

When we got into the lifestyle, it was because we wanted to experience non-monogamy together. There’s a dichotomy for ya. And it hasn’t been easy.

We haven’t reached a decision yet; if you have any insights to share, we’d love to hear them.

What about you, fellow swingers? Have you had issues with finding mutually attractive couples? How do you deal with that?

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I’m a Sensual Blogger!

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Having a literary orgasm over here thanks to lifeofalovergirl, who nominated me for a Sensual Blogger Award! Thanks, Lover, for popping my blog award cherry – my toes are curling! 🙂

Of course no good stroke goes unearned, so being the natural people pleaser I am, I hope to make the blogosphere happy by complying with the following rules:

1. Thank the blogger who nominated AWARDED you with a link back to their blog. Check.

2. Copy and paste this fine award on your blog. Done

3. Answer 7 “sensual” questions posed by the blogger who awarded you this fine award. (See below)

4. Select 7 “sensual” bloggers to award this fine honor.

5. Create or borrow 7 “sensual” questions for above-mentioned bloggers to answer.

7 Sensual Answers to 7 Sensual Questions

1. What is your favorite way to masturbate?

My favorite way to masturbate actually involves my husband, Rick. 🙂 I love to use my g-spot vibe with clit tickler, inserting it deep in my pussy at highest speed as Rick kisses and tickles my nipples and neck. God, I’m getting wet just writing about this. My climaxes are, let’s say, better than delicious…

2. What’s one of your naughty little masturbation fantasies?

I think I wrote about this one time in one of my erotic fiction stories. I would be very gently bound and blindfolded to a velvety soft chaise and having multiple hands (male and female) stroke me all over, stroke my clit and pussy while having two (or more) people suckle my nipples.

3. Do you read any kind of erotica or watch porn?  What’s one of your favorite kinds?

Yes and yes. I write erotica, too. Favorite kinds to read are usually “guy eats girl’s pussy and she squirts all in his face” type of stories and favorites to watch are usually girl-on-girl with lots of pussy-eating and kissing. Especially if the girls have nice large boobs. I think my husband turned me into a boob girl, since he is most definitely a boob man.

4. What’s something you like to do in the bedroom that you think might be unique or a special talent?

If I’m in the right positon, I can squeeze or ‘milk’ my husband’s cock with my pussy muscles. If I’m in the right position I can also cum pretty quickly. I am also rather loud.

5. What is your favorite thing to have done to you in bed?

My husband has the best hands, I kiddeth not. He has huge, strong hands that know just how to touch my love button, and his fingers are the size of some vibrators. And he uses them expertly.

6. What is your ultimate fantasy place to have sex?

Being pushed up against a wall and having my legs spread and hanging over the guy’s shoulders, running my fingers through his hair as he eats my pussy. Of course my button-down shirt is wide open and my bra is somehow missing as my big tits are exposed to those who happen to pass by.

7. What’s the most interesting place you’ve already tried it?

On a staircase in my house.

Now it’s your turn. Time to share with the rest of the class your answers to these 7 questions:

1. What is the smallest location in which you’ve had sex? (ie: broom closet, VW bug, etc.)

2. What is the sexiest piece of food you’ve introduced into your sex play?

3. Best sex toy ever?

4. Where have you used the best sex toy ever?

5. What is your favorite erotic website?

6. Who is the celebrity you would most like to fuck?

7. Describe the ultimate sexy photo. Who is in it? What are they doing? Color or B/W?

8. Bonus Question: I am in the mood to read a single paragraph of erotica: What can you create with the following prompts: an empty house, a bicycle, a can of soda and a stray cat.

And since I had to do it, here is your bonus. For some reason, Lover’s prompts (a thunderstorm, a locked door, a barking dog and an angry neighbor) made me think of Dorothy and Toto. But I don’t think ‘Lil Doro is supposed to have sex, so I changed her name to Deborah.

Deborah awakened to the sound of a barking dog. She looked at the clock on the table next to her bed and saw that it was 4:30 a.m. Damn dog, she thought. She got up to look out the window and saw an approaching thunderstorm on the horizon. She loved making love during a storm and wished her boyfriend hadn’t left so soon after their hot session in front of her fireplace the night before. As she stood nude in the window, she looked down and saw Phil, her neighbor, banging on his front door, which was apparently locked. He looked very pissed as he fumbled in his pocket for his keys. She tapped on her window and Phil looked up to see Deborah, her long, tousled, red-hair framing her face and her 38DD tits greeting him. She lifted up the window, leaned out, and with a sexy whisper, said, “Come on over. You left me a spare key, remember?”

And now, 7 Outstanding Blogs:

1. Threesomes and Variations
2. Sexytoyworld
3. Montreal Threesome For Women
4. rougedmount
5. londonserialdater
6. Seattlepolychick
7. Madameblush

 

 

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