A girlfriend of mine asked recently if I’d ever had sex blindfolded or while tied up, and I was surprised to hear myself saying, “I don’t think so. I’ve kind of had a thing about having my hands tied. And it’s not a good thing. ”
After she picked herself up off the floor after nearly fainting from shock (only kidding), she said, “You MUST try it. At least try blindfolding. And keep your hands above your head. You’ll have the orgasm of a lifetime. Promise me you’ll try it.”
“Ok, I promise,” I told her.
That night I told Rick about my conversation and he too, seemed surprised at the fact that, as long as we’d been together, we’d never really tried any kind of bondage play. He had never been the Dom in bed before, either. I had read hundreds of times how sensory deprivation can increase the intensity of orgasms, but had just never gone there.
So I laid out the appropriate toys on the bed: blindfold (that I just happened to have from a flight taken long ago; still unopened in its original packaging.), nipple clamps, a feather and my G-spot/Rabbit vibrator. He instructed me to undress completely and lie down on the bed. I did as I was told. The ceiling fan’s slow rotation created a light breeze that caused my nipples to harden. I felt myself starting to become aroused even though we hadn’t done anything.
He lay down next to me and kissed me slowly, while lightly caressing my naked body. Then he stopped and put the blindfold on me. For being an airline freebie, it did an amazingly good job of blocking out the light. He then took my arms and raised them over my head, instructing me to leave them there. (He already knew about my phobia about hand-tying.)
Then the strangest thing happened. I immediately became more relaxed. Like my brain was saying, “I can rest a little bit now that I don’t have to process all those things she’s looking at.” He kissed my neck and nipples, ran a feather around my areolas, then underneath my breasts, down my stomach, over my pussy and down my left leg. He then ran it back up my body in the exact reverse order. I was amazed at how good it felt, how much more aroused I became, and frankly, how much I enjoyed it. He then spread my legs and tickled my slit with the feather. I struggled to keep my unbound hands from moving. I was breathing so hard and fast that I sounded like I’d just finished a marathon.
But there was more to come (no pun intended). I felt a clamp being placed on my left nipple. It hurt for a split second, before the pressure sent tingles up and down my spine. I’d worn clamps before and love the sensation. He placed the other clamp on my right nipple and I was in heaven.
But my pussy was hungry for attention. I felt him kissing my stomach, moving down toward my pussy. Then he stopped and I heard the sound of my vibrator buzzing. The anticipation drove me nuts. He slowly inserted it inside my dripping, wet pussy and put the rabbit right on my throbbing clit. He slowly moved the vibrator in and out a few times, before resting the rabbit on my clit. By this time I was squirming all over the bed and struggling to keep my hands and arms above my head. In less than two minutes I was cumming all over that vibrator, nearly screaming in ecstasy.
The vibrator stopped and I thought he was finished with our session, but then I felt Rick’s familiar scruff on my soaked pussy as he slowly licked my slit. I was still on Cloud Nine from the first climax, but he sent me over the edge when he sucked my clit. I’m surprised the kids didn’t start banging on the door or something, as I’m sure I was noisy. He gently removed the nipple clamps and kissed my uber-sensitive nipples softly before putting my arms back down at my sides and removing my blindfold. We kissed more and I felt his rock-hard cock. After I took a few minutes to relax and catch my breath, I rolled over and took his cock in my mouth. I wanted to make him feel as good as he had just made me feel. I lovingly sucked, licked and deep-throated him until he shot his load down my throat.
Since that night, exploring the BDSM lifestyle has become more and more intriguing to me. I’m not sure how it would work while swinging with other couples, because it would require a lot of trust on the part of the sub, something that isn’t usually there when you hook up with a new couple. At least I think that would be the case.
Nonetheless, we’re definitely adding this to our personal sexual menu. Fellow swingers, I’d love to hear if you incorporate light bondage or some element of BDSM play into your swing activities. How do you make it work with another couple (or couples)?